find the solution

solutions dont come easy. the best way is 2 sit down and see what the problem really is. if u get a firm grip on the problem it will itself cough out the solution.sometimes the only problem is that we are confused and dont want 2 make the choices life throughs at us.

I HATE YOU!!!

I HATE U FOR EVERYTHING U DID,
DID TO ME,
DID TO YOURSELF,

FOR THE THINGS U WERE SUPPOSE TO DO BUT DINT,


THE SOUND OF YOUR VOICE NOW PEALS MY INSIDE,
THE LOOK OF U MAKES ME CURL IN DISGUST.

AND YOUR THE ONLY ONE WHOSE 2 BE BLAMED...

ITS ALL YOUR FAULT...

YA U!!!

WELL I GUESS IT WAS MY FAULT
THAT I EVEN EXPECTED ANYTHIN FROM U......

u wont know until u try...

Eg1:
I tried a flavor, I really liked it and I thought that was the best. I dint even bother ever properly trying out any other flavor. Just b’cos every one else said what I tried was the best among them all, I was content. Until that fate full day I decided 2 try something else.

I LOVED IT!!!

Only then did I realize that what my first conception was that what I liked because I never knew the rest was like, until I tried the other.


Eg2:
There was once a very big corn caravan. It was well known to house every verity of corn, of every size and shape, all for the same price. But it had some conditions for its customers.

If u pick one corn u have 2 leave the caravan, u cannot turn around 2 reconsider ur decision.

The first person who entered the caravan went through a handful of corn and he found one that he thought was quiet big so he picked that and left the caravan. On exiting the caravan he was really happy that he had picked a quiet decent sized corn.

He stuck around to see what the others from his town had got. After a while he realized that the one he picked was among the smallest in the caravan. He narrated what had happened 2 him 2 his friend. On hearing this the friend decided 2 try his luck.

He entered the store and went through every corn properly. When he thought he had got the biggest one he remembered his friend (A) and thought that there might be a bigger one ahead, so he ditched the one he picked and moved ahed. He kept doing the same over and over again until he finally had 2 leave the caravan empty handed.

Moral:
Don’t be the first person (A) who stuck 2 his first choice which he realized wasent the best for him, but also don’t be the friend who was so selfish that he remained empty handed.



The same applies 2 every thing in life.


Ur first choice will always seem 2 you as it was the best. It you keep it like that and say that’s the best, without actually trying the other thing u wont realize what ur missing out or on the contrary what’s special about your choice.

If u keep thinking that the first thing u like is best you are going u get u might be wrong. And also don’t expect that better choices will keep coming ur way. Some where down the line where u really feel satisfied and content, where u couldent ask for more,
That’s where u have 2 stop and stand firm.

Commitments a life not a prison …

Commitments a freedom, not a prison,
One that’s lets u frees u, not that’s holds u down,
Someone who will understand u, not put u in shackles,

I commit 2 be understood, 2 understand,
2 be felt, 2 be alive,
2 trust and be trusted.

Don’t bind me with ur words.
Make me understand what u understand,


I wond tie u down with myself, I wont deprive u of ur life, I want 2 share my pain and also joy,
not be the cause of ur misery.





If ur meaning of commitments different from the one here,
Call it rather a PRISON or HELL, picked by personal choice.
May u live happily ever after.