From my past relations I have learned…
All people say u shouldn’t give away every part of yourself to the person u consider your love,
Because they fear the person will hurt them, harm them, cause injury that won’t heal easily. They believe by keeping their one part to themselves hidden away they are doing shielding themselves from impairment of their heart, but they dot realize the price of the protection.
Most people tell me that they learned from their relations that they shouldn’t give themselves to the person they ”LOVE” cos that makes u prone to damage from the person. They feel that if someone knew them inside out they would exploit the knowledge (which they will by human nature law section control sub-section exploitation). But I say the key here is to open your eyes and see beyond the love, beyond the care and memories and see the real person he/she is, their true nature, the way they really are. Not the person they become when they come into your proximity. Then justify if the person you are trusting is worthy of the elemental part of u, the one you don’t want any one around.
Yeah that might sound a little 2 far-fetched to find someone capable of such trust, but it’s a big world out there u just have to open your eyes and mind and forge through the crowds. And sometimes things have a tendency to land up in places where u least expect them.
Coming to the part about what I have learned is that when u really want something, or in this case really want things to workout you have to give it ur best shot, everything u got, only then you will really know your limits are. And still u fail you should not be disappointed at the failure but be proud to have recognized your own boundaries. The quest for happiness from there on will seem a lot easier than it ever seemed because u now know everything and leave nothing for fate, luck or chance. It will be like arming yourself to the teeth wit weapons you have mastered, you will be able to use them in combat to the max of their limits.
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QUOTATION's - by Aditya (Me)
- ever wondered what happens when an IRRESISTIBLE force meets an UNMOVABLE object ?!
- So many people are trying to be different that the ‘normal’ have become the 'different'
- counting the no of times u done drugs, sex etc is similar to the binary no. of computers,
The difference between 1 and 0 is everything, but there is nothing after 1.
- death is not the greatest loss in life, the greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.
